Transitions


Transitions can be very tricky to navigate. Change is an inevitable thing that none of us can escape. Transitions can be scary, but I believe that they can be a catalyst for growth. If I had chosen to stay the same person I was 10 years ago, I would be doing an injustice to the people around me and to myself. The Merriam Webster Dictionary defines transition as a “passage from one state, stage, subject, or place to another: CHANGE” It gives a second definition that describes transition as “a movement, development, or evolution from one form, stage, or style to another.” It would great if every transition in our lives was a smooth one, unfortunately this isn’t always the case. Sometimes change can leave us with lots of anxiety due to the uncertainty of the outcome. When we transition, we move from one stage of our lives to the other. Oftentimes we cannot predict how things will pan out. That is what freaks us out the most, the lack of control we have over the transition.

I went from being employed, to being unemployed. Then I found a new job, but I struggled to find new place to stay. This went on for a month. In the meantime I was a travelling gypsy, which left me exhausted in more ways than one. Now I am finally settling into my new home. All of this happened in the space of three months, but trust you me, it felt long. These transitions took my emotions, thoughts, and body on a roller-coaster. I will not say that it was clouds and thunderstorms the entire time. There were moments of great joy, gratitude, and moments when I felt so loved by those around me and by God.  That’s the beauty of transitions. Even when it feels like you are walking on quicksand, the ones that truly care for you will always be ready to grab hold of your hand.

It is so easy to get caught up in trying to figure out what the next step of the transformation will be. We try to do things that will make it easier for us, things that will make us feel at least a little bit in control. But I want to challenge you, just as I was challenged. In whatever transition you are going through, be like a leaf being carried by the wind. Yes! Go with the flow and allow yourself to feel and acknowledge every emotion. The truth is that you were prepared for this transition. You have what it takes to make it through successfully. Just don’t fight it. You’ll land where you’re supposed to, and then it’ll make sense.

I am an Occupational Therapist by profession, but I have many roles that bring meaning to my life. In short, I love people, books and love.

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